Healing Beauty and the Beast of Perfectionism
The power of becoming an enlightened lady leader allows our Business Heroines to create empowering distinctions like the difference between excellence and perfectionism.
As conscious creators of our powerful life visions, it essential for us to become deeply attuned to the wisdom of insight, intuition and innate wisdom.
Innate knowingness has a way of showing up as a sense of just right-ness about our choices. And how powerful this awareness can be in allowing us to trust we will choose wisely when we are called upon. This is different than the self-righteous mind screaming at us to do more or be more. Perfectionism is never kind and gentle like a perfect moment in time. Nor does it feel perfectly right when we are caught in the mindset of impossibly high, impossible to achieve expectations. There is nothing beautiful or graceful about these inspirations. Yet we may reach into ideas we think we’re inspired by rather than inspirations of our hearts or souls.
Yoga helps us be present to the whisperings of our hearts and souls. A daily yoga practice can help you heal the pain of perfectionism which will have the cause/effect result of healing the pain. This sets you free to choose choices that enlighten and inspire you into infinite possibility. (Far better than the impossible bind of the next perfect idea to strive and drive and stress out over.)
Excellence. A far better choice.
How do you stay passionate without overextending into overdoing? Try this simple practice in mindful awareness.
(1) Be present to the need to avoid acting before becoming mindfully present to intuition and insight.
(2) Slow down. Take a time out. Choose a time and place free from distractions. Sit quietly with your eyes closed or simply lower both your chin and your eyes to rest quieting in one place.
(3) Take a breather: Breathe deeply. Focus on breathing deeply, smoothly and slowly into your body. Pause between your inhale and your exhale to lengthen your exhale twice that of the inhale. Do this for ten minutes to the count of ten.
(4) Notice the stream of thoughts in your mind. Is there a positive emotion associated with your thoughts or a negative? Think of letting go of these thoughts as if they are pebbles in a pond. Toss the pebbles into the pond until the surface of the pond ripples into stillness.
(5) Tune in to notice any tightness or tension on your body. Breathe deeply with awareness to where your body holds stress. Breathe fully and deeply until you notice the tightness ease away. Rest quietly here breathing slowly, smoothly and deeply until you feel relaxed in your body.
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