I see it daily on social media, hear it from my clients from around the world, I see it in the growth of humanity and the shame that hinders their growth all at the same time.

I have a question for you: “How much do you desire happiness, inner peace, financial richness and soulful vitality?” Easy question wouldn’t you think? When I propose this to new clients to gauge where they currently are, and where they can be, I hear the attributes of desire, the insecurity of the willingness to bring it to fruition and the unexpected realization that it can happen, all of it. You know the #1 ingredient I look for in my clients? Commitment to their purpose.

Now, hear me out on this as 98% of the world has no clue what their purpose is, but I noted the “commitment” to their purpose. Their Soul knows exactly what their purpose is, it shows up every day in every way to reflect back to the individual a pathway to deliver it to them, front and center. Do you know how many preservers to arrive at the quantitative moment when the realization that every single thing in their life since their childhood has been pointing out exactly what their purpose is, it’s like a hallelujah moment from within? Not many when you count how many get stopped by what I call the beast within. Want to know why not everyone gets there?

Self-inflicted neediness to fulfill the ego desires. It’s insidious; it’s extremely selfish and self-serving. Want to know how it shows up? Self-deprecation, underlying tendencies to create emotional and mental chaos in one’s life to cover up the real core shadows that hide behind the shame, the guilt, the pain that continues to reside within.

With over 30+ years of research into the human condition and it’s particular behaviors, I have noted that since the fall of humankind took place, (a separation from its natural state of organic integration with the world around it self) the lowly beast within, ‘the mercurial mind’ feeds it’s host an undernourishment of self-love. It breeds upon and into itself a love triangle that creates a myopia in the mind delegating new pathways for pain, a lonely space for peace, it embellish itself with falsified experiences that are felt as hatred of oneself, no regard to self-actualization, a narcissistic implosion that deems one better than others, even though reality shows that this is not true. The need to be filled is served an empty plate. One’s inner desires will never be quenched when experienced from this inner neediness. There is help and there is a way.

How to cure the beast within?

As the Founder & Director of Soul Therapy School and a Professionally Licensed Soul Therapist™ I am able to uncover the core needs that are not being fulfilled or compassionately exposed. The extensive ranges of clients that come to see me are from the age of 11 – 57 years old. Parents who are in need of help, not understanding why their child is suffering hallucinations of the mind and emotions, to women and men who are desperately desiring to get once and for all out of the prism of the mind that has kept them trapped for decades or years. Here are some steps to recognize within oneself to stand up and stop being a victim to your own experience.

Stop feeling that your pain is the only pain.

Stop believing that your experience is unique and that no one out there is going to understand you, they do, believe me, there are more people experiencing this type of life experience than those that are living happy and peaceful lives.

Stop hiding yourself and own your relationship to Source/God/Universe/Goddess/Shiva, etc. Take up a practice that consumes anywhere from 3-10 minutes a day that focuses on grounding yourself into the Earth, quieting your mind and seeing the simplicity of beauty right in front of you.

Stop putting on a painted face when inside your crumbling and breaking apart. Share your pain with someone who can objectively identify where your pain originates from. A parent or friend usually is not the answer; they are too close emotionally and usually are not qualified to offer an honest input to your reality. You can bring into your professional services a Licensed Soul Therapist™ to assist you in understanding, healing, releasing and creating a new life path that is prosperous, delving deep within to heal in the shortest amount of time possible so you may step into your new life experience.

Stop covering up your shadow of self-doubt, inner confusion, lack of focus, financial depth, loss of personal security in the world, your neediness. There is a solution to every single thing you are experiencing; you just don’t know that it is available at the state of mindset and emotional confusion that you sit in daily. It’s obscured from your reality at present.

Stop yourself from constantly reaching out to people out of your neediness to greedily feed the beast within. It is hungry and will seek out others to feed from once it has had it’s full from you. This is recognized as a co-dependent behavior.

You are not alone, you are a divine being, your presence on this Earth matters and you were given a job, it’s your purpose, to complete by coming here. Yes, you! IF you do not know what it is, book a private session to uncover the truth of you, to understand why you are feeling this way and to stop the pain from recycling every day or month. If you do know what it is-DO IT with every ounce of love that you have for your pain, reverse it and share it with others. I have to say, with a clear perspective (remember it’s obscured if not healed) you will come to understand one day why your personal experience is the greatest gift that the Universe has provided to you to learn from. Right now, it’s time to WAKE -UP.

I have placed specific definitions below so you can understand more about the language used in this article and also how much the inner workings of the ego prevail.

de·fy

1. to challenge the power of; resist boldly or openly: to defy parental authority.

2. to offer effective resistance to: a fort that defies attack.

3. to challenge (a person) to do something deemed impossible: They defied him to dive off the bridge.

4. Archaic. to challenge to a combat or contest.

my·o·pi·a

1. A visual defect in which distant objects appear blurred because their images are focused in front of the retina rather than on it; nearsightedness. Also called short sight.

2. Lack of discernment or long-range perspective in thinking or planning

self-dep·re·cat·ing

Tending to undervalue oneself and one’s abilities.

self-deprecating, self-depreciating

adj

having a tendency to disparage oneself

em·bel·lish

tr.v. em·bel·lished, em·bel·lish·ing, em·bel·lish·es

1. To make beautiful, as by ornamentation; decorate.

2. To add ornamental or fictitious details to:

b·east·with·in (Deborah Skye King’s definition)

the brain has a myelin sheath that covers the occipital lobe at the back of the brain. This part is hardened by neurological pathways that are steeped with symbolism, archaic and lingering pulsations that make you act or react to the world around you. Your occipital lobe does not understand or perceive time; everything is relative to the present moment as a spherical journey, what happened 10,000 years ago is still present today in the emotional body and this part of the brain along with other areas that create your present day circumstances of recognizing the truth of a situation. Does it come from a fear based emotion from the past or does it exist in the mind as a trigger to keep you in the moment of the fear that was generated?

April 2013 Issue