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I RECENTLY MADE A BIG DECISION: I’m building my biz and life 100% based on LOVE.
(Even if I sound like a fucking hippie sayin’ that.)
100 % LOVE = no room for fear.
100% choices … Based on Love.
That decision is changing my business and my life, right fucking now.
Last week, I showed up with large, heaping scoops of love everywhere: in-person, on calls, online.
And as a result had a breakthrough week with 100% conversions on my calls. LOVED that.
What’s going down behind the scenes is that I’M LOVING MYSELF FREE.
I’m choosing to free my voice and impact.
I’m choosing to love my husband free, not trapped, and just love him as he is now (and let go of what he’s not).
I’m choosing to Love my body now, even though I gained 20 pounds since the concussion I had last summer.
LOVE is my secret weapon and magic pill. Plus it’s FREE.
I sound fucking woo-woo when I say that, but I don’t even care.
Truth isn’t meant to be sexy. It just is.
Last summer, the Universe sparked this change in my path, when I walked into a wall. Literally. I walked away with a concussion that changed my life.
I had to stop. I needed to remember to love myself.
I changed paths, and soon I received two very clear channeled messages through art that I’m here to spread love in the world.
Set love free, because it’s meant to be free.
(fuck and it IS free to love yourself!)
Specifically, with women who are meant to be changemakers and leaders.
Women who need to spread love, change lives and make sales in order to get there.
Right now, I’m doing my own work so I can embody this more and more.
And I’m so happy to report it’s fucking working.
As a result of the work, I can see total improvements in my LIFE. My business has momentum, my marriage has improved, my kids are happier, and I am JOYFUL.
I see the future that is almost in my present more clearly!
What I’m learning is that to spread love, change lives and make sales, you MUST start by giving yourself a voice.
Not just a BS voice that sounds marketing sexy.
But a voice that dares to speak the truth, and what’s inside you.
The truth is the greatest measure of love. Speaking that truth is the second greatest to that.
I do deep fucking work. Going deep is easy for me. Shallow is not.
My business didn’t work well when I was pricing for surface work while doing deep work. I was attracting the wrong clients, who couldn’t handle the deep work.
Who didn’t want it. But now, I own that I do deep fucking work, and I show up expecting that the work I do WILL change lives.
With that kind of intention and clarity, it does.
And they expect it too, so it works. It’s that powerful, and I finally love myself enough to claim that out loud, with full love and no fear of saying it. And charge for it, too.
All I know is that what I’m doing is working.
Using my voice, and my choices to change my life, by making this simple moment-to-moment commitment to choose from a place of love, not fear.
Love is a practice that most of us grow up afraid to try.
We spend our lives glorifying fears.
When really, the only thing to do is just to love and be love. Now. And now. And now. And now, too.
And show up to every contact and connection with profound respect.
Be on every call to serve as the first purpose from a place of deep love and respect for the woman who chose to share herself and her time with me.
I could keep writing about this forever, but you get the point.
If you’re stuck in any way, give this love-based approach a try. there will be no more room for fear when you just love more.
We’d love to hear from YOU…
Where in your life and business can you live from love? What’s one way you can do that this week? Leave your answer in the comments below!